Weddings guide

Audio, video or written guestbook: which should you choose?

A written guestbook is the easiest keepsake to display, an audio guestbook captures voices and laughter, and a video guestbook catches faces too but asks the most of shy guests. Many couples now mix them: a phone-based guestbook lets each guest choose to write, talk or film.

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Sharefetti team
Updated October 2026 · 7 min read
Guests raising glasses during a toast
Key takeaways
  • Written: easy to display, but messages tend to be short.
  • Audio: the most emotional to replay, and less camera-shy than video.
  • Video: the most complete record, but fewer guests take part.
  • Phone-based guestbooks let guests choose, with no rental equipment to return.

1. A written guestbook

The classic book, card box or Polaroid album at the entrance. It’s familiar, needs no technology, and becomes something you can put on a shelf.

Good
  • Easy for every guest
  • Looks good on display
  • No power, signal or setup
Watch out
  • Messages are usually a single line
  • Busy guests walk past it
  • Only one person can sign at a time

2. An audio guestbook

Guests leave a voice message, either by picking up a vintage-style phone at the venue or by recording on their own phone. Voices carry tone, laughter and accents that a written line can’t, which is why many couples say these are the recordings they replay most.

Good
  • Emotional to listen back to
  • Less intimidating than being on camera
  • Grandparents and kids both take part
Watch out
  • Rental phones need setting up and returning
  • A loud room makes recordings hard to hear
  • Messages need a quiet corner
Phone vs rental

A rental phone is a fun prop, but only one guest can use it at a time and it lives in one spot. Recording on guests’ own phones means anyone can leave a message from their seat, at the after-party, or the next morning.

3. A video guestbook

A booth, an iPad on a stand, or guests filming themselves on their phones. Video catches faces, outfits and the room around them, so it’s the fullest record of the day.

Good
  • Faces and voices together
  • Great for a highlights reel
  • Fun for groups
Watch out
  • Camera-shy guests skip it
  • Booth rentals add cost and space
  • Large files to store and download

The three side by side

WrittenAudioVideo
Effort for guestsLowLowMedium
How personal it feelsMediumHighHigh
Easy to displayYesPlay it backPlay it back
Works in a loud roomYesNeeds a quiet spotNeeds a quiet spot
Extra equipmentA book and pensA rental phone, or noneA booth or tablet, or none

Based on what hosts tell us; your crowd may differ.

Which one is right for you?

  • Pick written if you want something to display at home and your crowd is happy to grab a pen.
  • Pick audio if you want the voices of grandparents, friends and kids, and a keepsake you’ll replay on anniversaries.
  • Pick video if you want a highlights reel and your guests love being on camera.
  • Mix them if you can’t decide. A phone guestbook lets each guest choose, and you can still keep a book at the door.
The easy way

All three, from guests’ phones

Sharefetti’s guestbook lets guests write a note, record a voice message (up to 2 minutes) or a video message (up to 1 minute) in their phone’s browser. Voice and video are included with Celebration ($79 CAD / $59 USD, paid once).

See the voice guestbook

Frequently asked questions

What is an audio guestbook?

An audio guestbook collects voice messages from guests instead of written notes. Guests either pick up a phone handset at the venue or record a message on their own phone.

Is an audio guestbook worth it?

Many couples find voice messages more moving than written notes, because they capture tone and laughter. A phone-based audio guestbook avoids rental costs and lets every guest take part.

How do guests leave a voice or video message without an app?

With Sharefetti, guests scan the QR code, tap Leave a message, and record in their phone’s browser. No app or account.

Can I download the guestbook messages?

Yes. Hosts can play every message in the dashboard and download them all to keep.

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About this guide

Written by the Sharefetti team. We build QR code photo sharing for weddings, birthdays and company events, and we test every tip at real events.

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